Life becomes extremely romantic when we meet someone special, someone who not only love us unconditionally but also make us feel like one in billions. Boring Music become melody, meaningless talks becomes highly important and every single dream seems achievable when we encounter our soul mate. Surely, everything seems perfect when we find the one to spend our rest of lives with, but as night follows days, summers follow winters, bad days follow good days, our life never really walk on the same track. Still if you want to uphold this charismatic fire of life forever, then keeping these 11 points in mind is a must-to-do for you.

1. “Never call her FAT!”

Never.. Never.. Never.. just never even try to utter these 3 letters out of your mouth, otherwise, trust me.. nobody can be your saviour. As the Joke goes, “Call a girl beautiful a thousand times, And she never believes u… Call her FAT once, And she never forgets!”

2.  “What’s wrong with you?”  

Undoubtedly, this is mostly said by us to many of our colleagues and friends but saying them to our lovingly spouses could turn out as a dangerous thing. As this not only makes her realize that they did something wrong, but implies that they are innately blemished.

3. “Why can’t you be more like her?” 

Never ever do anything like this. It implies that you are comparing your lovely wife with someone else.  This express the message:  I wish, I would have married to someone else. It not only hurt her feelings a lot but also remove the trust a marriage should have.  For a Successful married life, never let this word come out of your mouth.

4. “You know that girl, she is really attractive.”

This word possesses enough strength to make your happening life into disastrous one. She not only feel less -loved as a lady but will also give rise to a bunch of endless questions.

5. “Stop being so sensitive” 

These words have an exactly opposite means then what you truly mean at your part.  She’s a girl and she has all right to be sensitive as long she wants. You should try by saying “calm down, love. I am with you.”  It will also rekindle the fire of romance.

6. “You don’t need another pair of shoes or dress.”

Well, it’s a known thing that a women love to look beautiful and stylish. That is why you should never comment on her dressing and clothing. But still if you are thinking to say this to her, do it on your own risk.

7. “Forget it, I will do it myself.”

These words can give a disastrous effect which not only makes you eat food outside 24/7 but also bring down your romance to zero level. It conveys that you don’t have patience for your wife or you doubt her and want to make her feel extremely bad about her failure in an activity.

8. “No.”

If you want a happy and prosperous life, you must avoid the use of this word with your wife. As the saying goes, “Wife’s can say no. Husband Says, “Right away, my love.”

9. “You never do this or you always do that.” 

Using these words such as;’ “you never appreciate me” or you always create trouble for me” can be a real danger signal for you. They not only criticize her but also demotivate to change for better.

10. “Whatever.”

You would be wondering that how this small word can destroy her mood. Well, it is known that this word is used for showing coolness and relax mood. But still, it may convey to her that you don’t care for her. Better is, to give her a real answer and appreciate this fact that you are being asked.

11. “So, that’s all you did/made/bought?”

Even If you are not fully satisfied for what your love did for you, but saying this, can spoil her mood and efforts.  Think of the effort she had put, instead of attacking them with harsh words.  Appreciate them at first by thanking them and then put your point in a beautiful manner.