In the list of all the big events, the wedding is among the major ones. Both material and emotional, a lot of changes happening during this phase is no less than a roller coaster ride full of adventures. Be it your or anyone close, you know the thrills and big crave to arrange everything top notch. Especially when you’re the bridesmaid, you can’t compromise with the quality and comfort of your bride. Wondering how to prepare yourself?

Here’s a checklist for every Indian bridesmaid to keep in mind for the wedding!

Engagement Ceremony 

• Help the bride to create outfit ideas as per her will. Explore among the widest range of options on the internet or offline market. From traditional to trends, segregate the outfit and accessories ideas with the bride, and help her choose.
• Keep in mind the bride’s style and what suits her the most. Brides are often nervous about their best looks and experimental ideas, hence it’s your responsibility to encourage and assist her. 

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• Keep in check the fittings of the outfit, and ensure the bride is comfortable in it. Bride will have to sit in the same attire for hours, so the whole outfit has to be comfortable.
• Explore the best vendors in town for the ceremony. From food to banquet halls, work is indeed distributed in Indian weddings, yet you have to ensure the bride is in tune with the decor and ambience.
• Gather all important information and tips for engagement ring shopping. When choosing a diamond for the couple, manage to blend in the couple with intelligent jewel choice.

Haldi Ceremony 

• Keep in check the bride’s allergies. If she has sensitive skin, arrange the haldi/ubtan as per her skin needs. 
• Before the final ceremonies like haldi and more, help the bride with her skincare routine. A recommended skincare routine with appropriate products will not just help her with a glowing skin, but also with extraordinary confidence.

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• Explore all the market for a beautiful haldi outfit, along with keeping in mind the hassle the bride has to face in the ceremony. Ensure the outfit is charming yet easy to manage.
• Arrange the haldi decor as per the requirements of the bride. Whether she wants a minimal yellow gold shade or she’s looking for a colourful vibe, communicate and manage the requirements. 

Mehendi & Sangeet Ceremony

• Book a henna artist only after proper research, reviews and trials. This not just helps you find economical and efficient henna artists, but also eliminates the last minute conflicts. 
• Ensure the healthy quality of henna for the bride that lasts dark and long.

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• Arrange healthy and yummy snacks, both for the bride and guests. Mehendi ceremonies are now often merged with Sangeet, hence plan surprise performances of the family for the bride. Surprise your girl with your performance as well with lots of love and laughter. 
• Be with the bride while she’s getting her henna done. While she’s unable to move herself around,  be her helping hand, feeding and having fun with her.  

Cocktail Party

• This is the ultimate party a bridesmaid will plan. Arrange everything from suitable decor to close friends list. Plan the right ambience the bride will enjoy, the night before her wedding.
• Keep in check the party playlist as the bride’s most desirable playlist. Since you know her the best, go through the old memories and explore all songs she’s liked.

Photography: Studio Kelly 

• Ensure the dinner and drinks are perfect. If you’re involving alcohol then ensure the bride doesn’t drink too much as it might be a problem for the wedding night.
• Plan something ultra special for the bride. Since it’s her last night as a bachelor with her family and friends, make it memorable by your out-of-the-box creative ideas. 

The Wedding

• Ensure the last-minute fittings of her wedding outfit. There’s always something that comes last minute, so prepare yourself for the last-minute rush.
• Be emotionally available to the bride and her mother. Since it’s one of the moments of sentimental rush, be there to support them emotionally with much love.

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• Make sure the bride has taken enough sleep, to avoid puffy eyes on her d day.
• Throughout the day, take care of what your bride eats. Make sure she doesn’t starve herself in the hustle of the ceremony.
• Save your bride from getting cold feet. A lot of guests might bring a lot of anxiety. Calm your bride that everything’s going to be fine.
• Enjoy! Being a bridesmaid is no less than being the bride’s superpower. This superpower needs to be celebrated. Have fun and make unforgettable memories!

Photography: Israni Photography

What are your thoughts on being a perfect bridesmaid? Have hopped on your checklist yet? Tell us in the comments below your bridesmaid goals, and for more wedding tips and ideas explore more with weddingplz! 

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