This Friendship Day Make Your Spouse Your Best Friend

• By WeddingPlz
• August 1st, 2015
• Celebration & Fun
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• 2 Min Read

‘Best Friends make the Best Couples’, so this friendship day, add some flavours of friendship in your relationship and relish the khatta-meetha rishta just by following few tips –

1. Unveil the craziest habit :

Do you miss the school days when you used to clean your shoes by rubbing them on your school pants.. or you wish to eat ice-creams like crazy..?? There are many such dirty habits which you and your friends used to share in common and they were accepted without any hesitation. Now after marriage all such habits are concealed to create an image of the ideal person. Unveil them; they are just a part of your personality. It is good to improve and have control over oneself but sometimes it is so satisfying to behave the natural way.

2. Plan to play a game :

Think off those sports and indoor games which you love playing with your friends and plan it with your spouse. It can be cricket, badminton, crossword, carom, cards, antakshari or anything that brings out the child hidden within you and your partner. Sports and games are the best way to encourage a healthy friendly spirit in your relationship.

3. Enjoy some buddy time :

Gossip with your wife or go for shopping with her. Talk about business/sports/girls with your husband or give some space to each other. You might not like to shop but to encourage a friendly relationship with your wife this knack could play wonders. Similarly as a wife you might not like to watch news or sports channel or discovery but at times showing knowledge and interest in these areas might help you in getting closer to your better-half. You might also go for clubbing as friends and enjoy some buddy time together.

4. Do some leg pulling :

Leg pulling is the most important facet that keeps friendship humorous and lively. In the same manner it will bring vibrancy in your relationship too. You keep appreciating your spouse with all your heart, now use your sense of humour and start some leg pulling. This decreases the hesitation and increases the transparency and closeness.

5. Share your darkest secret :

Being a spouse, you always want to portray the image of an ideal person in front of your better-half by being their dream girl/prince charming. And that’s where a fear develops inside. A fear that stops you while sharing everything about you and your past. You want to keep the transparency but not at the cost of facing the fear. So, here is a chance! This friendship day take an initiative to make your spouse your best friend and share that darkest secret. It could be you got bullied by your classmates or might be your ex dumped you or anything. Don’t stop yourself from sharing anymore. Friendship is the bond based on understanding and acceptance. Your spouse will understand and accept you with your darkest secret too.

So, what are you waiting for…this friendship day say this to your spouse –

‘Mustafa mustafa don’ t worry Mustafa, Hum hain tumhaare mustafa

Day by day badhta hai dil dil se mil jaata hai, Jaadu hai aisa friendship ka!’